Secretive to the core, the Aquarian male is a strange combination of sociability and reserve. has a lazy charm about him. Casual and laid-back, he takes life one day at a time. But his dating an older aquarius man attitude stops when it comes to ambition. Goal oriented and focused, nothing will stop an Aquarian from realising his dreams. And when it comes to dating Aquarian men, girls can be sure of having a ball. Every time you meet an Aquarian guy, you are sure to have a good laugh.
And the spectrum of emotions that he displays like flashes of lightening will keep you intrigued. There are two distinct types of men under this zodiac sign. The Aquarian man falling under the first 40 per cent is cynical, opinionated and eccentric and shows strong traits of aggressiveness. He is loud and boisterous, and likes to strut his stuff- showing off what he bought, where he went and the like.
Most of this kind are usually full of Me, Myself, I, and rarely see beyond themselves. The Aquarian man who falls under the balance 60 per cent is the passive type and exactly the opposite. He knows the power of underplay. Never loud or brash, he will not brag about his material gains even if it is a Ferrari he bought the previous day. Most Aquarian men I dating an older aquarius man met are full of energy. They are propelled into activities by an inner force.
And this is true not withstanding their casual attitude. I have also observed that most Aquarian men are likeable people. They mingle in a crowd and make friends easily. In fact, an Aquarian man is most happy in company. He can connect with people of any age, gender or background easily. Also, Aquarians have the unique trait of chatting up women and end up showing more interest in them in a social gathering.
His inherent secrecy will make these traits hard to spot the first time, but if you follow the pattern over a few times, it may become obvious. Aquarian men, like their female counterparts, make great show of self-confidence. They like to go on a talking spree about things they know nothing about. They cover up lack dating an older aquarius man knowledge and confidence by excessively exercising their tongues.
Another thing they hate is being tied down. Pushing him to do what he is not ready to do yet is a sure way of losing him. He dislikes being controlled and would do as he pleases, whatever the repercussions. He will take up responsibilities only as and when they suit him. If duties are imposed on him, he will find a way to wriggle rockland county speed dating of them or throw tantrums to show his disapproval.
This trait makes him a difficult child too. No parent would know how to teach responsible behaviour to an Aquarian boy. Very, very slow and calculative…that is not to say he is manipulative, but he likes to make his moves stealthily and with caution. This man is only analysing you before making his move. As a lover, he is also full of surprises.
He will woo you with the most unthinkable ideas and lure you into the most daring terrains. Be sure you fall in step with his ideas of honesty and commitment. Otherwise, his romance will take an instant U turn. Only if he is totally in love will he open up and lay bare his secrets. While in a relationship with him, you should have the tact to draw him out of his reserve and see the man he truly is…underneath his strong facade of friendliness. Another quality he appreciates in his love interest is the ability to understand him and give him the warmth and care he requires.
He looks for a friend in his partner, someone with whom he can share anything and everything. An Aquarian man tends to have sunken eyes and rather blunt features. Most Aquarians have unconventional looks. In the case of dressing up, an Aquarian male can swing to two extremes. He will either dress up in the most fashionable do or go for a totally eccentric style of dressing. Another pet peeve I have marked in Aquarian men is their affinity to colours. His ambition knows no bounds. He is relentless in his drive to achieve and succeed.
The other kind is ambitious too but can be content with what he has. He can strike a balance between his work and personal life and will devote as much time at achieving things as he would dating an older aquarius man himself and his family. I find Aquarian men most interesting on this aspect. They either demand respect or command it. However,both are terribly egoistic. Although the mellower Aquarian may show humility at times, his ego is not far from the surface.
The more you intrigue him, the more he will be enticed. Nothing delights an Aquarian guy more than unravelling mysteries or unlocking deep secrets. He will probe into your innermost thoughts and desires making you feel like you are the one for him. He would do that to any other person. Whether the relation between you two would reach the next level depends on how long you are able to sustain his interest. Another word of advice…this man is not a conventional lover.
So what should be expected of him? The answer is a good time. He can be funny, entertaining, romantic and protective in his own unique way. You will be floored by the innovative ways he thinks of wooing you and the unconventional ideas he follows to prove his love. He dating an older aquarius man a lot on building networks and being friendly with everyone, but when it comes to compatibility, one has to probe deeper into his psyche.
What exactly does it mean for Aquarian men and women from other signs? Between these two it is a wait and watch game. But with a little bit of patience, they can hit a home run. This relationship is somewhere in the middle. He can give her a lesson or two on how to have some fun and she can mellow down his bizarre nature. Adventurous, spontaneous and non-conformist.
Who am I talking about? Both are placed on opposite poles. He is too friendly and easy going to fit into her intense and serious nature. This relationship can be anything dating an older aquarius man boring. Filled with his unconventional behaviour and her powerful charm, their union can bring in a lot of crazy moments. But for a fruitful relationship, they would need to work hard on understanding each other. Things can work out between the two if they quit trying to improve the other.