Dating someone who has herpes (HSV2)
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Categories Recent Discussions Activity. Categories 7K All Categories 3. In this Discussion January FiguringThisOut January WCSDancer Hi there, I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months, and he has HSV2 he's had it for about a year and a half. I've been tested very recently, and do not have HSV1 or HSV2. I am 27 and he is He told me 3 dates in.
He was so amazing about it, and I was so blown away by the fact that he told me prior to us having sex that I continued to date him. I'll be honest, I think part of me was crossing my fingers that a few more dates in I would find him less appealing, but it didn't happen like that. Fast forward nine months, and I'm in love with him We're still not having sex but it's getting increasingly difficult to refrain. He doesn't pressure me at all, in fact he hates talking about it; it's like he'd rather not deal with it.
When we do talk about it he just shakes his head and is seemingly convinced that he will pass it to me. I've read the stats and I know about daily antivirals, condoms, etc I know my odds of meeting someone else who is positive if we were to break up Or if you have HSV2 and are dating someone who doesn't, it would be great to hear your perspective. I don't want to give up on this relationship, but I can't help feeling like relationships never last forever and am I dooming myself to a life with herpes by being with him?
Thank you so much for your help. I really appreciate how supportive this forum is. And thank you for coming here to get educated and informed Sounds like he's bought into the stigma Right now he's likely believing you will leave him because of the virus and he's setting things up to prove himself right As for YOUR belief that "relationships never last forever" Of course nothing is certain in life At least he can take the anti-virals, use condoms, and monitor his body for signs of OB's and prodromes.
But watch your words I'll post his contact info below or you can PM him on here. I'll post those links as well HUGS email at adrial adrialdesigns. January edited January Hi Hula, I can only tell you my experience; being someone with herpes dating someone who doesn't. When I started dating again after being single for a while and not having to tell anyone about having herpes, I was pretty scared of how te guy would respond if I told him, when I should tell him, all that stuff.
Sometimes you just go like: Well, it's because you guys really like each other. And when you really want to be with someone, you know you have to accept their downsides too. Being on this side, it's quite important how the person you date responds to the whole herpes thing. Yes, herpes is incredibly annoying and painful dating someone with hsv times, but dating someone with hsv all.
It's not dangerous, it's not obvious to others that you have it. Nothing more than a nuisance. So basically, when you don't want to take the risk of having sex with him even when protected, you are rejecting him over the possibility dating someone with hsv even definite consequence of getting bart en siska dating nuisance.
Imagine what that could do to someone's self-confidence. You emphasize the idea in someone's head that this condition makes him unwanted. On the other hand: I was so relieved when i told my guy about it. First of all he wanted to know what it was really like and what the risks were for him to get if me. Dating someone with hsv I told him these things honestly, he thought about it which he should!
Otherwise he'd be senseless and then he was dating someone with hsv I can deal with that to be with you. Which dating someone with hsv me even more reason to love him So even if you think relationships don't last forever - even though I disagree with that think about how much you want to be with him now and in the near future, and what that's worth. Is this relationship worth more than have an annoying skin condition? Otherwise you might have to dating someone with hsv the whole relationship itself.
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