Seven Killer Online Dating Tips For Men
When I first started learning PU, one thing I tried early on was the personals. I attempted all kinds of NLP-loaded letters that friends told me were foolproof and got basically no online dating pua. And, if Online dating pua ever did get a response, I sent an HB my picture, and then never heard from her again. So I engineered the personals onlune I learned cold-approach game: I can now, four out of five times, email a girl and take it all the way to the! Shout-outs here go to Lovedrop, David DeAngeloRoss JeffriesZan, and a guy on Cliff's List who Online dating pua think is named Gamemaster, all of whom contributed essential pieces.
It goes against all logic, but the best profile is one in which you are a TOTAL ASSHOLE. The first line of my profile is: I'm a selfish prick. THEN I go on to online dating pua my looks and physique. FINALLY, I tell them online dating pua I don't give a fuck what anybody thinks. I do what I want when I want. Most of this is from Lovedrop, so I'm only paraphrasing in case he doesn't want it posted. Everything in the profile is designed to make me seem like a choosy selfish asshole seducer.
My tagline, adapted from Zan, is: Finally, for the coup de grace, is something adapted from Gamemaster. When I describe what I'm looking for, I say, "If I had to write a newspaper personal, it would read something like this…" Then I go on to describe, somewhat facetiously, that I'm a well-hung sexually talented stud looking online dating pua a married woman who wants to make her husband jealous oline order to procure expensive gifts from him. Again, you can figure out your own wording.
If you're really retarded and need it spelled onkine, let me know and I'll consider posting a link to my profile. For the picture, I don't post an actual photo. I post a SKETCH someone has done of daating. If you don't have a friend with art skills, just get a sketch of yourself done by a street sketch artist or at a comic convention or something. This way, girls looking for profiles with photos will come across your profile, but at the same time, you'll be able to hook them with your personality before they can just disqualify online dating pua as not being their type.
Often, girls will write me just to ask, "Are you for real? Whether I write the girl or she writes me, my letter is always pretty much the same. I keep it short. The intention is that I am the prize, and she will have to work to get me. I bust her balls on something in her onliine. Is the top of your head pointy or something?
I give her a hoop to jump through, so that she has to meet my standards. I also usually give her datihg nickname. Email me at [Insert your email address] and tell me three qualities you possess that would make me want to get to know you better. I will, of course, send online dating pua a non-illustrated pic — two if I like what you have to say. She'll send you onkine reply. Usually, you can tell by the tone what she's after.
More than half the time, there will be a hint of sexual suggestion in there. In your response, bust her balls a little, but tell online dating pua you're impressed as if she's winning you over. Now I put her on the points system. Now, for the picture, this is key. I used to lose the girl when I sent some dumb digicam photo of myself. Fortunately, about a year ago, someone took a photo of me for a magazine, so i tell the girl I don't have a digital camera, but I scanned a photo from a magazine for her.
This is great, because it's great social proof and also a little mysterious. If you don't have a photo that's appeared in a magazine, a school newspaper, a society page, whatever they don't have to know where it's online dating puajust make one. All you need is a good photo, a magazine, a scanner, and Photoshop. I've had friends make really funny ones, with good captions. Usually, they'll take a photo of themselves out, or with a celeb non-posedand make it look like it's from the party pages of In-Style or something.
Once they respond to this, online dating pua time to take it offline. Write them back, bust their balls, and then write something casual like the following: My number is below. Or, if you're shy and would feel more comfortable if I called, just email me your info. At this point, she's already interested, so whatever way you choose to get the phone number is online dating pua onlinr big deal. I only make one phone call. That's all it takes. All she needs to do daing to hear your voice to know that you're for real and not online dating pua sort of psycho.
Here's the phone structure I use:. Don't say hello and introduce myself. Instead, refer to a private joke from my emails such as saying, "Hi, imp," if that's her nicknameso that she automatically recognizes who it is. Break the tension right away with a pre-prepared story. Chose from any of your favorite ASF stories. Jlaix has tons of good ones if you don't have any of your own.
Tease her a little into talking about herself, but only for a few minutes. It helps her feel rapport to talk about herself a little. Use the David DeAngelo tactic: Let's online dating pua meet for a quick That way, if you're a complete nutbag, I can escape with my dignity. Make sure you have a kidding tone; usually she'll tease you back. The plan should ALWAYS be for vating intimate bar, where you can sit down.
SteviePUA has what he calls his Tonguedown Bar, where he takes girls to make out. I'm talking about this kind of place, although with Solid Personals Game you will not be making online dating pua here. You need to pre-plan two things: One is a second venue to take her to if you like her. A venue change IS key. Two, I recommend bringing friends. Pretend like you bumped into xating there, if you want.
It surprises her when you're with someone, and also socially proofs you. Greet her, then sit down with your friends. The game at first is ALL body language. When i sit with her at first, I'm VERY distant with my body language. I need to let her feel that she is slowly winning me over, that I'm getting comfortable with her. Also, the girl will almost always give you negative body language at first, and if you're totally open to her with your BL, it makes onlnie seem needy and supplicative.
Trust me on this. It's a online dating pua subtlety. INSTANTLY go into a routine.